"Ted"

 

This is "Ted". I bought him to give to a friend of mine who was not well. Her name was Patty, and I had known her for about 12 years. She lived four houses down from me. We both caught public transport, and would often meet at the bus stop. We became good friends and got to know each other and about each others  lives. Patty had 2 adult daughters, both whom I met. Patty always asked about my health as she knew I often ended up in hospital, and she would always ask if she could  help in any way. Just before Christmas last year, I got a message from her, saying she had been in hospital and had an aggressive stomach cancer. I was shocked and asked if there was anything she needed. She replied that she was fine and had good support around her. She did say she would like to see me.

However, I ended up in  hospital a couple of times and wasn't well. Patty started Chemo  in January and that made her weak and more unwell. We messaged for a short time then I never heard back from Patty. I never got to see her again. Last Friday I found out that Patty had passed away, and her farewell (Funeral) was the next day. I was in shock. I went to her farewell and found it challenging. I felt really sad. I couldn't get my head around the fact that she had gone. She had passed away about 8 days previously. So, getting back to "Ted". I had bought him for Patty but never got the chance to give him to her. I made the card that is hanging around his neck. I know "Ted" would have made Patty smile. I have kept "Ted". He sits on my bed, smiling serenely. I hope Patty is looking down from where ever she is, and can see him. I miss you Patty, and I miss out lively chats we used to have. I miss your caring personality, and the way you always made sure to ask how I was knowing I have frequent visits to hospital. I miss you, thank you for being my friend. Rest in peace, and I will see you on the other side.💖